Communication Between Systems
When systems need to talk, they have two fundamental ways to communicate: synchronously (waiting for immediate replies) or asynchronously (fire-and-forget). Understanding this split will help you debug issues, choose technologies, and explain architectural decisions to your team.

Synchronous
A direct, real-time conversation where the caller waits for an immediate response.
| Protocol | Best For | Pain Points | 
|---|---|---|
| REST | Web/mobile APIs | Versioning, overfetching | 
| GraphQL | Complex client data needs | Query complexity | 
| gRPC | Microservices (internal) | Binary format debugging | 
| SOAP | Enterprise integrations | XML complexity | 
- Use when dealing with success/failure scenarios, such as payment gateways or user authentication flows.
 - Avoid for long-running tasks, imagine waiting 10 minutes for a webpage to load.
 
Asynchronous
Async communication via message brokers. Systems toss messages into a "digital mailbox" and move on.
| Technology | Strength | Quirk | 
|---|---|---|
| RabbitMQ | Flexible message routing | Needs queue tuning | 
| Kafka | High-volume event streaming | Complex setup | 
| AWS SQS | Serverless simplicity | Vendor lock-in | 
| Redis Pub/Sub | Real-time notifications | No persistence | 
- It shines in scenarios such as:
- Order processing ("Thank you for buying, we'll email when shipped")
 - Data sync between systems ("Update CRM overnight")
 - Event-driven architectures ("User signed up → send welcome email").
 
 - Watch for problems like:
- Message duplication ("Why did we charge them twice?")
 - Stale data ("Inventory says 1 left, but it's actually sold out").
 
 
Comparison
| Criteria | Synchronous | Asynchronous | 
|---|---|---|
| Latency | Immediate response needed | Tolerable delay (secs-min) | 
| Error Handling | Fail fast | Retry queues | 
| Coupling | Tight (knows receiver) | Loose (via broker) | 
| Scalability | Limited by caller | Independent scaling | 
| Complexity | Simple to implement | Complex delivery guarantees | 
| Cost | Resource-heavy (waiting) | Efficient (no waiting) | 
Most systems you’ll encounter use a mix. Remember:
- Your company’s existing infrastructure will heavily influence choices (no rewriting COBOL batch jobs into Kafka streams).
 - Communication patterns often outlive the systems themselves.
 - When joining a team, ask: "What happens when System A sneezes?" The answer reveals their system communication philosophy.
 
Now that you’re armed with this knowledge, you’ll never look at a "Connection timed out" error the same way again.